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First confusion should be dissolved as much as possible. To do so, there are two steps to be taken:

A. Figure out when a decision has to be taken. It’s important to know how much time is left before the decision has to be made. When you know that you have still some time before you have to decide, you could relax and use all this time to collect information and advice, which can be helpful in making the final decision when the time is ripe.

B. Find out what the main/basic problem is that you have to decide about. Often, under pressure, we mix up different questions and problems so that secondary problems become main problems, which only gives more confusion.

Put all the secondary and tertiary problems aside for the time being and focus on the prime or basic question/problem only.

Following the two rules above will help you.

So, do not focus on what to decide, but use the time you have in a relaxed way. You might discover that when you follow this advice, that by the time you have to decide, the answer or the solution comes spontaneously.